son to the U.S., settled in the U.S. after graduation. I base a back foreign wife Susan. Today, grandson Toby has been 3 years old. This summer, my son applied for a visa to visit relatives. Spent three months in the United States, foreign wife Susan ways to educate their children, so my mother an eye-opener in China.
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every morning, Toby woke up, Susan, to the breakfast table a release, to fair keep running around tending to the. Toby climbed up on their own stool, nectar milk,
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repeatedly, Toby and the neighbor kids out to play, no more breathless to run home to the General Assembly, to Susan, said: backwards, actually? Susan smiled and said: Since then, Toby had never dressing anti-pants.
reminds me, my granddaughter will not use chopsticks five or 6 years antique, basic school will not tie his shoe. Now boarding by the junior lofty educate, she brought family every weekend do a lot of polluted clothes.
day at noon, Toby disgruntled, refused to eat. Susan said that his few words, angrily shoving the panel a little Toby to the ground, spilled food on a panel in an location. Susan looked at Toby, said earnestly: laughed among herself, this mother and son, are entire very headstrong!
p.m., Susan and I discuss in the evening for me to cook Chinese food. I take the prompt, Toby command farewell to eat Chinese food, it must be noon Susan Toby did not feel good to eat, let him eat more at night.
display cooking that night I did a Toby favorite Sweet and Sour Pork, shrimp oil boring, but also pasta made with Chinese-style chilly noodles. Toby likes to eat the variety of noodle, full of little people can eat a big plate.
began to eat banquet, and Toby joyfully climbed the stool. But Susan came, took away his plate and sword and fork, said: to cry in tears, weeping, said:
I feel bad, and want to make Toby excuse, say a good word, a blink to me, was wondered to find his son. Remember when I premier came to the United States, his son told me that, in the United States, parents educate their children, others do not mediate, even now the elders are no exception. Helpless, I had to remain silent.
the meal, from beginning to end,
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before working to sleep, with the whereabouts of Toby, Susan and I say good night. Toby carefully asked: After sleep sleep Open your eyes, you tin eat? Toby shining.
most cases, Toby eat very positive, he did not want to Every time I see places to eat Toby, hard at breathing, his face sticky lips are food, I think of her granddaughter. She, like Toby so much, in array to coax her to dinner, a few adults holding jobs with the rear end of her run, she did not buy it, but also about the conditions: afterward eating a bowl of buying toys,
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eye for an eye, but few people that the body
One day, we took Toby to the park to play. Soon, Toby and two girls playing on the kitchen game. Plastic kettle, a small spade, small plates, small bowl placed over the floor. Suddenly, a naughty Toby elected up the kettle, beating his brain hard on a girl a morsel, the girl froze a moment, explode into tears. Another smaller number of young girls, see some cases, have been frightened into tears. Toby did not expect about such solemn consequences, would stand in amazement.
Susan walked up, beginning and cleaning the whole matter, she said nought, picked up the pot, hard knock to the head of Toby, Toby did not prepare for, what child fell to the grass and cry randomly together. Susan Toby asked: I'm sure he'll never do it.
uncle Toby presented him with a light blue small bicycle, favor Toby, as a baby, no let anybody touch. Neighbor girl Lucy is a nice friend Toby, Toby several periods apologized to ride apt his car, Toby did no response.
time, when several children play together, while Lucy, Toby, do not pay care, secretly ride car, sped away. Toby discovered, came to the Susan angrily complain. Susan is the mother of several children and chat with a cup of coffee, he smiled and said:
After a little while, Lucy was riding the car back. Toby saw Lucy, a will she fall to the ground, grabbed the car. Lucy sitting on the floor and cried. Susan picked up Lucy, to appease her for a while. Soon,
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Toby will be riding their own cars, feel a little foolish, seeing that having so many children elated, he wanted to join, and feel a little mortified. He rubs up opposition Susan around, muttered: , then corner back. Back and along several times, do not know when to begin, Toby and Lucy and a big grin, city center has chance a team.
pipe educate babies the entities their parents
Susan's parents live in California, I heard I'm coming, they drove to visit us. Home to the visitors, Toby is very excited, sprint up and come down to globe rampant. He used to play with dirt pail fraught with water, put the keg in the house hiking approximately. Susan advised her several times, not the water overflow to the floor, Toby ignored. Finally, Toby, or the bucket prostrate, and the water spilled over the floor. Excited little Toby do not feel erroneous, and also proud to play barefoot stepping water, the pants all rainy. I immediately detect out the mop for mopping the floor. Susan caught the mop from my hand to Toby and said: Susan apart from anything else, instantly to the arsenal chamber he pulled, closed confinement. Toby listened crying inside the earth-shattering publish, I feel bad bad, want to go pick him out. Toby's grandmother has stopped me and said: I was wrong. line tears. He took a swab of his two struggling with high water shuffle on the ground neat. Then he took off his pants, carry in their hands and bare buttocks into the lavatory, splinters from the clothes to wash.
Toby grandparents looked amazing I look, smiled with deep sagacity. It left me with deep sensibilities. In many Chinese families, parents punishment their children, constantly cause a
Later, I conversation with Toby's grandparents, the say of the material, Toby's grandfather said the words, so I was very impressed. He said that kid are the parents of the child, parents must respect the child's training. The child is small, but it is nativity ambassador, when he saw the differences among kin members, he will be very smart at exploiting loopholes. This is not merely not behalf to cultivate his behavior, it will guide to increasingly serious problem, and even more other problems. Moreover, conflicts between family members, family air will send disharmony children more insecurity, the psychological evolution of children adversely affected. Therefore,
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Toby's grandparents lived in the house for a week, prepared to return to California. Before I left for two days, Toby's grandfather solemnly asked his daughter: give him a couple of roller skates as a gift to the Christmas toy excavator as a gift to buy him! supermarket, he pointed to the toy excavator, said:
Although Susan Toby so rigid, Toby incredibly loving mom to Quedui. He was playing appearance,
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calculate of many Chinese children's stupidity and indifference of parents, I had to appreciate my foreign wife. In my opinion, the child's problems in education, the American mother has a lot to study from the Chinese mother.
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