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】 【talk to those 32-year-old piano teacher of wood Weinan
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December 12】 QQ □ this way News, ZHOU
3 times that he loved, always true dedication, but each time the flowers love the rain helpless in the real dying. He was very sad and very confused, and even some despair. He said:
girlfriend a change of heart when I see the old white-haired couple walking together, my heart will be filled with envy, I loved more than once, each wants to grow old with each other,
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my home is in Northern rural areas, poor living conditions at home, in order to study hard in college before I did not talked about love. Junior year I met with the term and my Nannan. We are engaged in music, I studied the piano, her voice training. Because often participate in school plays, I always do her piano accompaniment, One day, the seeds of love in our hearts grow. Nannan 1.68 meters tall, a bit like Cecilia Cheung, very beautiful.
universities are relatively simple affair, and then we get along in harmony, what argument did not happen. I love her, she loves me. But we never crossed the bottom line, because I respect her. The most we are in the campus holding hands, kissing.
in the face of school choice, we have no contradictions. When we were young, idealistic ambition, Nannan said she wanted to study abroad, I have supported it. But the situation only allows us to go out one, another person in the country work to earn money. I made the sacrifice because I love her, and I believe she will come back, we said yes, she came back we study rooted in Kaifeng, to here as our second home, and all are stable, we to get married. May be the result she eat them. Nannan
I have been gone to work at home,
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, I did not complained to the Nannan. At that time, all the thoughts I have on the future ... ... for her, I looked around to borrow money, family, friends, colleagues, students borrow money again, to her college graduation, I owe debt of 26 million. In fact, I fear no amount of hard work, the only thing I did not expect that she would actually break up to me.
Nannan just abroad when our relationship has been quite good. A girl living in a foreign country will feel lonely, I often write to her call. Who would have thought then she thought could be changed slowly, when we're together before the vows are gradually forgotten by her.
before graduation, she often complained to me on the phone that I gave her enough money to spend, usually can not afford even a dress and said how much students have a lot of money. She said these words I can understand her feelings, because the relatively high consumption abroad, life and values are not the same with us. But until then I still firmly believe that our feelings will not change.
can Who would have thought I was too confident. When Nannan to me to break up, like a lightning bolt-like, I feel so helpless, and very helpless. She told me she fell in love with an Italian student, and said she was very grateful to me, I'm sorry, she would give her all the expenses I have back to me. Can be to the last penny I have not yet. Money does not matter that she cheated my feelings, broke my heart.
Nannan just to break, I also tried to restore. I asked her where to go to our previous vows, but no matter how I rebuked her and ask her, she just told me over and over again I'm sorry, I forgot her, saying that I will have a better girl to love me The. She was not with me, and I see her. After several efforts, I also disheartened.
coming back after so many years Nannan, but also to contact me several times, but I did not see her. My heart is broken, see what meaning?
● distance, and the second died
feelings and the end of this affair, I spent three years to adjust, But, I tried to make money debts. In 2004 I returned from Tibet, Kaifeng, a teacher at a university.
universities often have a number of performances. I remember that evening students are welcome, many students were turned away because of no tickets. A girl was wandering around at the door, want to go watch the show, but no vote. She asked do I have extra tickets, I said: End of the party when the girl ran back looking for me, introduced herself called Wen Wen, I am grateful I give her the ticket. She said she liked the piano, I hope I can spare time to teach her. In this way, I met a cultural text. Hebei Handan
Wenwen who, though not really very pretty, but she is a talented woman, the article is written particularly well. Spare time she used to come after me, and I taught her piano, she taught school several times not, but our hearts are closer and closer.
feelings of failure may be affected by the impact of the first paragraph of it, the first soul to deep I can not just get along, Culture and the text properly. Wen Wen speak and act is the kind of girls are more stable,
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we love more than a year, Li Wen to graduate school, but she did not choose to work, but continue to Kaobo. She said a better life for the future, after graduation, Dr. Jin points to a good university. She thought also reasonable ah. So while I hope she can stay in Kaifeng, Kaifeng, the civil service exam, but when she proposed to test the field of university, I have no strong objection. I thought it very simple, that it is in the country, but not in foreign countries, should be no problem. But I was wrong. Wen Wen
later passed the Ph.D. at a university in Jilin. Is separated in two, her school or during our feelings have been good, I often see her. Every holiday we will meet. In addition, we usually frequent telephone contact, a dozen is more than 1 hour.
I have been to her home, met her parents. Her parents do not favor us a little love, that we have a gap between academic and professional are not the same, that I am in the arts, said that people do not engage in the arts, reliable, affectionate, easy divorce. Wen Wen could not care, she said, as long as we love each other with it.
Wen Wen also visited my home. I am very satisfied with her parents, she feels good, educated, and sensible. In rural areas, say someone found a son of Dr. that is very proud daughter.
near her graduate, we have a contradiction. Wen Wen told me that she wanted to Beijing's development, said Beijing's development of a larger space, I want to go. But I feel that Beijing does not suit me, want her to be opened. During that time the subject every time we talk to disagree, she said she thought, I speak my truth, who can convince the two people who, when all was silent.
Wen Wen was in Beijing to participate in the civil service examination to be admitted. When we really have to face reality, I chose to stay in Kaifeng. Perhaps the lessons of the last failed romance, this time I did not dare to easily give and sacrifice.
I have seen in Beijing Wen Wen side, want to do the last time, can result in each side of the situation, we propose to break up. Together we cry, after the friends said. In fact, we do not want to separate, but who are unwilling to make sacrifices for whom the reality forced us to make that choice. Wen Wen
After that I never met with only occasional contact, say hello to each other.
● fell in love with her, our relationship began in February this year, the network
, I started feeling my third paragraph. I was in graduate exam scores, etc., because the test is Lanzhou University graduate student, I was in the online search to find the students of Lanzhou University, where students want to learn some of Lanzhou University,
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short time, but I love her deeply, is the kind of unforgettable love. She is my 8-year-old,
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first we met through the Internet, chat, quite enjoyable. I went to Lanzhou University graduate students to participate when there is no re-testing to find her. At that time I felt they were too far apart, did not dare to bet on. I did not graduate from retest scores were admitted, and then I left Lanzhou, relax the travel to Tibet. For some reason, I often think of that time, Linlin, often give her a message.
so I came back from Tibet, I officially declare her the. Beginning Linlin do not agree, then, when I persuaded a colleague she accepted me. Then we play two or three hours every day the phone, and talked happily.
before that we have not met each other only through QQ seen pictures of space, but also are more satisfied. This girl I can say that the eyes of others may not be pretty, but in my eyes she is beautiful, no competition.
we agreed to meet later, I went to Lanzhou to find her. Lanzhou day, just began to rain, I'm in Lanzhou, a hotel near the train station waiting for her entrance. To the time I did not tell her a specific time, because I want to give her a surprise. Lanzhou Railway Station next to my door to give her a hotel on the phone, I said I went to Lanzhou, and she was very excited and asked where I am.
waiting for her during the time my heart was pounding. She later appeared with umbrella in front of me, we looked at each other. Her eyes are beautiful, as if talking. From her eyes I can feel her I was quite satisfied. Together the two of us walking in the rain, feeling very romantic, very happy.
larger the rain, then we went into a hostel. We sat on the bed chatting, talking about life, talk about ideals, about aspirations, about the future. And then later my arm gently Lanzhu her waist, her head to hide my arms, I gently kissed her. She asked me about love? I do not hide, tells her: friends, hope is the last one.
I spent three days in Lanzhou, the three days she was with me day and night dormitory. We often walk hand in hand in the campus of Lanzhou University, I jokingly said:
love between family is sweet swing, but my feelings as always by the curse-like face many obstacles. This time is the struggle of love and affection. Linlin told our love of her parents, her parents did not expect strong opposition from many reasons, first, too far; second animal is substandard; third, that I am in the arts, is not reliable; Fourth, that my age than she is too much.
Linlin is a dutiful, obedient girl, the face of family pressure, she was very confused. However, we still the same as before, every day, calling the information, then her parents agreed to let me go to her house again. I took a lot of Kaifeng's specialty, and Lin-Lin went to her house. Her parents saw me was not very enthusiastic performance, but symbolic,
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in her home a few days, Linlin many relatives came to cause us to break up, that they too far apart, there is no way the work placement together. I said that in the future I can work her transferred to Henan. Lin-Lin once told me that she did not want to stay at home, want to follow me to Kaifeng development.
Although many people were against, but those few days in Linlin home, we left a lot of good memories. I was around during the day she lost in a fog, at night we went for a walk, take the small road in the countryside, we hand in hand, and some will be excited when I picked her up. Lin-Lin I loudly said to her, in bloom, as if all the troubles that moment, the pressure is gone.
I returned from her home after opening, we still maintain the phone, SMS messaging contact, the feelings between us has not changed, but her parents still often put pressure on her, said they support her so much is not easy, not want her to go away, wanted her Liuzaishenbian. When her parents say that these, Linlin very painful, very contradictory, I can feel, then I give her about our feelings, about our future. Her heart and eyes on me.
recently with her parents even more strongly against us, and her father had to die onslaught, I can see Linlin also very helpless, very sad. I told her: She never mentioned her to me to come to Kaifeng work to do. She asked me to make her willing to sacrifice? I did not hesitate to say yes, there are willing to go to her house development, but give me time.
few days before her father called me personally, let me not contacted her daughter. I am speechless, and very helpless, I do not know what the result of this relationship will be, will still able to escape the fate of breaking up?
■ Notes
talk to reporters after the third day, wood forwarding to me a Wei-Lin-Lin sent his message: how to evaluate you, your image in my mind has not changed, I'm just too nostalgia family, can not be set aside to blindly pursue their own happiness, after all, they take care of me 20 years is not easy. and Linlin still did not escape the feelings of the fate of breaking up.
money, distance, family, love for wood Wei died again and again. He said he has been desperate for love, but I would like to say to him, human life can not be plain sailing, career ups and downs, love the shifting alliances, no one could escape, possibly before some people to be happy hardships suffered more. Anyway, do not you ever lost a post-denial of those happy, do not you hate that after breaking up loved, most importantly, but also to muster the courage to love again.
(East this report)
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