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as you want to be.
First, we must know that no adversity could anyone old Master Li. Around me is the ant populations of the same people who have been on the quality of life, and now each of those also are the ants have a future. In fact, most of those successful adults also had ants, you do not be discouraged, do not have comparisons. I live when I was still proud of Shue, because there was a lot of artists have lived, because 斯琴格日乐 lived in it, because it said Faye Wong lived in similar areas. Do not be someone else's 忽悠 lost your fighting spirit. Should suffer as a test and hone their own opportunities.
second disadvantage in fact is a blessing. Do not care about the small favors a small profit, we must focus on the future, design your own life. If there is a larger target young people, to not be too care about the reality of a small number of small problems and unpleasant, if expectations are too low for life, little things will be great for around dissatisfaction and complaints. Mr. Qian said, who wants to ascend the peak, they will not care about the temporary stay humble food of small hotels, bed sheets dirty, suffered a minor is to big. Liu Shaoqi's
Third, we should avoid to happen the second year in their own city syndrome. This is out of my own observations. A lot of people to Beijing in the first year, not well adapted to the city and their own separate, always feel that they are here temporarily, in addition to outside work desperately nothing special hobby. When the second year, when his slowly into the urban culture, I began to imagine living like the locals, the sense of urgency will be more indulgent to be urban culture to assimilation. In fact, this is not your city forever. Always have a sense of urgency in the way of life must not be complacent. Training to more assertive and less blindly follow the trend.
Fourth, not to Hupenggouyou blind consumption. A lot of people to a foreign land, will Zhaolao Xiang, the students, this complex is our tradition, it is worth promoting. But when this tradition into Hupenggouyou party, drinking, shopping, you should be careful. Because this is the beginning of your fall in the city. Moreover, life is a beautiful woman is enough.
Fifth, try not to live the landlord is an individual house. 30 years of reform and opening up, our people have become merchants, businessmen are not materialistic re-defined. We often get angry at the street vendors who operate without a license gives short weight, the same operation we have to guard against most of the unlicensed individual rental households. Rates should be lightly, electricity, water, health costs, heating costs to receive the number to receive the amount of noise if they think you do not want you to live, middle of the night will get you sent packing. In comparison, the collective, is the better of apartment management.
Sixth, we must develop the habit of accounting. No matter how much your income, account of this habit if they can keep at it, it will benefit. Because the accounting process, not only those who calculate your expenses, but by the account you would think, sum up your gains and losses of the city.
Seventh, we should know how to insist. The world is flowing for you, not liking the work can change and live happy you can not easily change, unhappy life, when really want to give up. Sometimes persist for a while more, you can change it all, and sometimes more than you will win will adhere to a new life.
eighth, to more exercise less sleep late. Many people are too busy and tired working hours, rest days, one to sleep want to sleep characteristics, the bad habits.
the ninth, went to the bookstore to read little more than an Internet cafe. More to the bookstore just to let you look at those books, you can not buy.
X, to do their maiden work. No matter what, you have been working hard to do their first job, do not be easily fired or firing their bosses. This work may lay the basis for your professional life.
XI, and students do not compare with the poor little income. You maintain your current living wage is only food and clothing, who did not need to care about little more than a hundred Erbai's. Than have to wait until 10 years later than that.
XII, to love his party and his party dry. All roads lead to Rome, check you like to do, do it, do not be fits and starts network in the industry, exchange between the types of work around.
XIII, do not look down on ordinary work, and then work to achieve the ultimate ordinary also great.
fourteenth, not to read too much education, should experience more important than academic weight.
fifteenth, to send some money regularly to their parents. Do not forget the kindness of parents, parenting, there is no time to choose to work outside the home remain devoted parents, then send some money regularly. Parents usually do not spend your money, they either marry a wife waiting for you to build a house, or waiting for you to do a dowry.
XVI, if you choose, and the opposite ###### living together must pay attention to contraception. For love or rent no matter what province of reasons, cohabitation before marriage has been unstoppable, then the young men and women must pay attention to contraception. Otherwise, once a problem, not just the loss of a small fortune in medical expenses, but also to harm the woman's body, and feelings of both the ups and downs. This point must guard against.
seventeenth, the idle time to try to do volunteer work. Volunteer can give you pleasure, you can increase your vision and experience. Volunteers in many areas is now available. For the younger generation is now involved in volunteer activities will be a good way to change the destiny. If you can not find a place for volunteers, then starting from the side, from helping your neighbor, help the elderly on the road to help a primary obligation of counseling sessions, many things can be done.
the significance of the 17 advice, I want you to always keep your own style, not like most people into not only for daily necessities and food and drink Lazard or others alive; I let you maximize the power savings, clear your life antenna to form a right understanding, right view, mindfulness, to look forward to one day broke out, as you want to be.
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