Dear wife: Hello!
you soon with my son on the eve of formation of a new family, family stability and unity for the coming years, hope that we can on issues related to exchange views.
an economic problem: the so-called economic base determines the superstructure. We will first talk about this issue.
1, my son graduated from elite schools, it seems even for work, but also the basic economic problems to worry about. He is now more than 10 million annual income. I would like, according to Beijing is now the standard of living without the burden of loans and rent in the case of the two of you life should be enough. This plan is based on the work you do based on. If you have work you love, and I am happy for you; if you have income of a good job, I am even more proud of you; your quality of life will be improved accordingly; if you do not work, I do not have any opinion, man support the family is only natural, like you just have fun. As a mother I am very supportive.
2, as our elderly, in the coming days and will not reach out to you, our hard lifetime, the cost of the earned enough for us. At this point, do not you worry about labor, I hope you put all the revenue used to build your small families, build better and better
3,
air max 2009 sale, I and his father raised his 20 years, asking nothing in return, What you do not have to live on something, but we will not be provided to your financial support of life, I hope you will be able to become self-reliant, happy life.
4, you raise your family, you should be full of gratitude. Your family did not raise my son,
air max 2010 sale, so you do not want him to give something back to your family. If he based on your love and respect for your family willing to assume corresponding responsibilities, I also understand and very supportive. But I and his father will not have any financial help. That you understand. Of course, if your own family than we are strong capabilities, we will have your own family does not require any financial help. We mean it.
5, our assets and securities will be accompanied by a lawyer under the notary in the notary office for a will-making. We will heritage on his son and grandson's name, when the son is not alive, and grandchildren under 20 years of age, this part of the funds managed by the hand,
nike air max sale, and a lawyer supervision. You will not have access to our assets. Of course, you have housing for our residency. I hope you support our decision, after all, my son in the future the two of you after all earned, and we will not be thinking about.
second house problem:
1, you live in the house will be provided to ensure that housing, the City of Victoria, the 130 square meters or more, the community mature. Buy a house at a reasonable price range as far as your views based. But the real estate license will not have your name, so even if you try not to far away on the inside of your reception guests. Decoration and appliances you have 20 million budget, I hope you feel bad that we, as sparing as possible in order to invoice price reimbursement. Decoration when I try to control their own will not make any comment because I fully understand the wife made for her mother's feeling of resentment when the renovation advice, and I agree.
2, you live in the house we will retain a key with the main key in order to post or you did not have unexpected events (such as leaking, running power) of the preparation. Personality I swear to you, then do not by your consent, will never live in unauthorized access to your house. And we will not go to visit you without warning.
3, we live in the house will set you hand the key features above. Ready to welcome you to, midnight or early morning can be avoided. Nanny always at home, not afraid of no one living dry.
4, after you bought your house, as the case we will provide a certain amount of congratulations that mind, in addition we will not find fault with any comment.
relationship together for three days:
1, son of my own, is a continuation of my blood, I can not love you more than love him. Please bear this in mind. But you also this world my wife and son in addition to the closest person, so when you and outsiders have any conflict (whether your relatives, friends, classmates, colleagues or friends and family from my home) I will firmly stand by your side.
2, you have to understand that no matter how bad his son, he is always in my eyes, that cute baby cradle, is that the mud face naughty little boy, and you appeared in my eyes is a mature and sensible young lady. So I think the son is always easy to be forgiven. This is very sorry, but I do want to be your mother would understand. So I will try to have a dispute in your favor when you (a natural son's will not hold it), but you told me as little as possible is not that guy, okay?
3, my son is born, I will objectively as possible before you married me, especially her eyes and talk to you about some shortcomings. On the other hand, the husband is pick you, you thought after the wedding of his education has nothing to do with me, please post your own for transformation, I will not help and will not obstruct the
4, for you, after all, not my daughter, I will first of all to respect, hope to further enjoy. What if you could not understand or do not like me, if not my business, I will shut up. If my business, I will try to exchange views with you politely, I hope we can reach a consensus.
5, for me, I hope you respect, if love is better. What if I could not understand or do not like you,
air max sale, and if none of your things, you will shut up. If none of your things, please do not express the third man before, in our time alone Please tell me frankly, we find a reasonable solution.
four daily problems: After all, we are not a person, not a common life experience, so there is always knocking, I hope we can abide by the following principles:
1,
nike air max shoes, my family got a nurse, so you come to my house When not working, but if you want chopsticks at dinner when the cosmetic and I would be very happy.
2, there is no nanny in your family I do not care, but when we go to when your home to work, I will not help. If you find it troublesome, I invite you out to dinner I was not the problem.
3, in my house, please keep my lifestyle and health standards.
4, in your home, I will respect your lifestyle (If you like young mess, I'll see good). Do not make irresponsible remarks and find fault.
5, on other occasions, I hope you within reasonable limits, try to make me, if I did something nasty or inappropriate thing you can say so.
6, the annual Spring Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival, May Day, Eleventh four large sections ask you to make the following arrangements: If Eve at my house, is the day you go you to her parents, if you eve of her parents, the holidays brought in my house that day, cycle from fair arrangement.
five children issues:
1, later have children, I do not want you doing the Month tube, the main quarrel is easy to maternal emotional instability, and gas will not hurt good. I will give you hire a Yuesao, hire a nanny, people ask you to pre-selected, I'll pay for it. I go there once every other day will help purchase, if I buy something and have objections to the brand, please list your list, I will do buy. If your mother is willing to take care of you, I took Yuesao nanny employed, while the burden of the cost of your mother.
2, I support breastfeeding, I support the kids a bath every day, I support the young and points to ... ... to your wishes, but everything else. But I suggest you re opinion of a doctor.
3, children's education I think it is most likely to cause conflicts. I recognize the right of final decision in your hands in the premise, I hope we fully discussed, consult experts, respect for science to security as its premise,
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It was a heavy topic, I really do not want to talk about, but according to my previous traumatic experience, or start with the good: the general opinion is: more fun, less work, the economy is not contacts with each other, relationship to each other not to use. If the two well-matched to a lot of fun with'd better, if the conditions are too far behind, the best little between the two (I'm not Xianpinaifu, her family is very prominent if you do, what we actually do not a common topic).
sum up, dear daughter, if we can abide by, I believe we will be happy to get along, enjoyable.
Finally I wish you a small home and beauty, to live.
your future: Veronica
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