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Reprinted from 365386136 at 19:42 on December 12, 2010 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (1) Category: Personal Diary
First, speak out frankly
especially out of your inner feelings, emotions, pain, thoughts and expectations, but certainly not a criticism, blame, complain, attack.
Second, do not criticize or blame, do not complain, do not attack, do not preach
criticism, blame, complain, attack these are the executioners of communication will only make things worse.
Respect for each other to give each other respect
only have to communicate, if they do not respect you, you have to request the appropriate respect for each other,
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four, not blaspheming
abusive injuries,
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Fifth, do not say you're not to say should not have said
If so, often at great cost to cover the cost, is called \in, loose lips, \Therefore, communication can not be arbitrarily, outspoken, but totally do not speak, and sometimes will become worse after.
six emotions do not communicate, especially not in the mood to make decisions
often no good words to communicate, both disarray,
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April, such as: noisy their hands full of husband and wife, against each of the parents and children, under boss confrontation long ... especially not in the mood to make emotional, impulsive \regret it!
seven, rational communication, communication
irrational irrational not only dispute were not the outcome, not to good results, so this communication to no avail.
VIII awareness
only need to communicate not only aware, all are needed. If they said something wrong, something wrong, such as do not want to cause irreparable harm, the best way for that?! \
nine, admitted I was wrong
admit I was wrong is the communication of the disinfectant can be thawed and improve the communication problems with the conversion to one: I was wrong! How many people write off the old passions, not open for many years to resolve the knot out, people suddenly see the light, lay down their arms, to face themselves, they began to re-think about life, and even who I am?? In this vast universe flood, the people most concerned about is that? me?, if someone does not respect me, and to suppress me, bully me or insult me, even as close as father and son, may become enemies, partial tears a little, what kind of running away from home, give you an example of death are not uncommon to see mile!
ten, say sorry!!
say I'm sorry, I really do not mean what a big mistake or something wicked, but a softener, so things will eventually \on can also create a \In fact, sometimes you can really wrong, refuses to admit that a wrong thing.
XI,
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now he was willing to admit to each other, that is,
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second, love
all love, love is the greatest healer.
XIII
If you do not turn to wait for transit,
Brother!, we must wait,
Where is the best girl in Guangxi - Qzone log, emergency rule would benefit Fen silk, of course, do not empty it will wait for the results fell from the world, or go to your own efforts, but the effort and may not be the result, or forest for the trees, but if do not work hard, you will have nothing.
fourth, waiting patiently
the only essential is patience, ��־���¾���.
fifth, intelligent
intelligent people not persistent, and blessing to the soul.
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