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22128702 2008 年 08 月 23 日 10:46 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (1) Category: Personal Diary
The let go to let go
time can change everything! > First, you care about each other more
you in a relationship, but not to determine each other's ideas; you think you are right, he seemed to disagree; he is not when you want him, you do not, he did not seem to differ, which What does it mean?
love is not perfect, long continue, you will love hungry, you will feel controlled by the other side, you will feel angry, cheated and suffering.
Second, you love each other's potential
you love each other potential,
mbt sale, rather than the other really, the way you love each other's future might look like, he is not your partner, but the object of your transformation.
Each time we make pre-marital counseling will be asked, if the other five decade will not change, you will be satisfied? If you still want to change each other, then they would feel more satisfied, it is not love, but gambling as a bet with both sides happy.
contact with a person you , we should love and respect each other's Benxiang, rather than his future look like, you can expect him to continue to grow, but you must be satisfied with the way he is.
Third, you want to help each other
you often feel sorry for the other side? Do you think they have a responsibility to help each other perk up? you will not be afraid to leave the other party if he will not stand against? If so, you probably is a Health and gratitude, feeling like such a rescue mission, not a sound, balanced emotions.
The key to remember here is proud of your partner do not want your rescue, but you really know him.
four, the other as the object of worship
director fell in love with a young actress, Students love Professor, secretary in love with the boss ... ..., fell in love with the object of worship,
mbt shoes sale, this feeling is difficult to maintain normal,
mbt sport shoes, because of equal treatment between the two men can not.
both men and women must be treated equally, I do not mean the status of , but the attitude, not idolize each other.'ll love the object of worship, often self-confidence is low, they feel very bad.
five, you are just attracted by each other
everyone will look like this, ? If you find a character that they have been attracted to each other, to ask ourselves if there is no other pair of big blue eyes,
mbt uk, magnetic voice ... ... If the other party not a model, will not play basketball ... ... I will tell him (her) together? man is the first appearance of productivity
six
brief opportunity to be together day and night you and your partner to share a job, often with overtime, so you feel in love the other side ... .... you go on vacation for three weeks,
mbt anti shoe, also came to know a man on vacation, you feel like falling in love ... .... short morning till evening, in exceptional circumstances is a piece of hash is not normal, this feeling can not be sustained, because the short time I felt I could not make you fully understand each other's personality.
seven, in order to select the object
rebellious parents did with you always stressed the need to find a rich object, but why are you every boyfriend is a pauper; young parents strict discipline you, but why every girlfriend you were free; young father imparting instruction, communication incense is the most important thing, but why can not your girlfriend is not life, just do not want students ... ...
If the object of your choice, always make parents angry, you probably just want to treason, what do you think will come back to prove, when you can not control their own choice, you do not really love each other, which No results section of doomed love.
eight, the other party is not free themselves
this point I leave to the last, because it can not be emotional. choose life companion of the first premise - the other is a . broke up early, and another woman; or he says he does not love that woman, and he loves you; or to accept his original object of your existence,
mbt shoes uk, they do not intend to break up, but he wants to be with you for a while; or he just broke up, but may be reunited ... ..., these are not freelance.
object types and people who are married or have contacts, no matter what the excuse, the results are the same, you are doomed to heartbreak. Do not forget, you are simply part of another person with the left.
choice in your hands, the responsibility on you, you picked the right person. If you have contacts the object, and you are feeling the above mentioned eight One, to get counseling, do not waste time, there are better objects waiting for you!
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