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In China, the concept of male superiority has been deeply rooted, like all of a sudden change is unlikely. As a woman, if that is a responsible woman on the family, if she marries a man her age, or is it similar to her junior, so many cases, the fact that the benefits to men than their own than to marry a younger women are more affordable, more reliable.
more women than men are always the first into maturity, and therefore should know better than men cooking the family, men should also be earlier than their peers to adapt and address the family encountered more species problem. As the saying goes: female junior, hold gold brick. That perhaps is the reason. Women more than men of a careful, more of a responsibility than men - a sense of responsibility to family, women are always better than the men. A mature woman always a good grasp of the differences that appear in the family will appreciate a good man's life in this society is not easy and difficult. In due course, when she would give men the encouragement and recognition, will also timely to remind the men of the attention when what difficulties and setbacks encountered how to deal with. At this time, an older woman is more calm than a small woman, but will deal with the problem.
Chinese tradition of male superiority, in fact, a man put on a straitjacket. Some men, though unable to go, can not stand, but to a man's face, have struggled. At this time I would think: man, you why he is a man. When the crying had to put a smile, when the laugh had to show a large reserved. In the unit that,
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However, if the wife the same age or older to men. So even if the man in the unit of work tired, coming home, he can lie down and slowly enjoy the family warmth body,
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and if you are younger than her husband,
Please check mark into the woman sitting - Qzone l, then you have to always and everywhere to his remarks as a guide to action in the direction you have to listen to him on principle, you will always feel that they are always under his leadership, because as a man, he was a man of dignity, the patriarchal tradition so that men feel more in giving such orders are granted. So the slightest mistake, he would reveal not satisfied, they will think you are challenging the authority of his position, it will lead to family conflicts.
fact, for a man, a woman by the greater care than the family of a woman smaller than their more affordable, when a woman larger than her husband felt , she would stir up invisible in the burden of the family would be more careful to look after and care of their men, they think everything without always do not trust their own hands, so her emphasis on the family level will be high sense of responsibility to family is more important. And if a woman younger than her husband, she usually rely on their own man, always felt a man should do these things, it will virtually increase the man's burden, it will make a man feel tired, tired in the unit, back to home, big and small have the final say by themselves,
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Therefore, China's current family values, it should change the traditional concept of male superiority, so that women have more autonomy, so that the status of women have a greater increase,
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