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Reprinted from 18684 at 02:35 on May 27, 2007 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (1) Classification: Emotional World time can change everything!
one, you care about each other more
you in a relationship, but not to determine each other's ideas; you think you are right, he seemed to disagree; he is not when you want him, you do not, he did not seem to differ, does this mean?
role; but if one party is always an suitors, such feelings are not sound, long continue, you will love hungry,
la gear light, you will feel controlled by the other side, you will feel angry, cheated and suffering.
Second, you love each other's potential
you love each other's potential, rather than the other really, the way you love each other's future might look like, he is not your partner, but that you transform the object. Each time we make pre-marital counseling will be asked if the other party fifty years will not change, you will be satisfied with it? If you still want to change each other, then they would feel more satisfied, it is not love, but gambling with the happiness of both sides as a bet.
when dealing with a person you should love and respect each other's Benxiang, rather than his future look like, you can expect him to continue to grow, but you must be satisfied with the way he is.
Third, you want to help each other
you often feel sorry for the other side it? Do you think they have a responsibility to help each other perk up? If you are not afraid to leave the other side, he will not stand against? If so, you probably is a Find a traumatized,
la gear sneakers, vulnerable, dependent, unloved, wronged people, you love by the Health and pity, you are grateful, he will, like the feelings of such a rescue mission, not a sound, balanced emotions. The key to remember here is
four, the other as object of worship
fell in love with a young female star director, professor of college students fell in love with the secretary in love with the boss ... ..., fell in love with the object of worship,
la gear sale, this feeling is difficult to maintain normal, because between the two can not be treated equally. Both men and women must be treated equally, I do not mean status, but the attitude, not idolize each other. Fall in love with the object of worship, often self-confidence is low, they feel very bad.
five, you are just attracted by the other party looks
everyone that, right? If you find yourself being attracted to each other to a character, to ask ourselves if there is no other pair of big blue eyes, magnetic voice ... ... If the other party not a model, will not play basketball ... ..., I will be with him (her) together? Productivity is the first appearance of man
six brief opportunity to be together day and night
you and your partner to share a job, often with overtime,
la gear police, so you feel in love with each other ... .... You go on vacation for three weeks, also came to know a man on vacation, you feel like falling in love ... .... Short morning till evening, in exceptional circumstances is a piece of hash is not normal, this feeling will not last long, because the short time I felt I could not make you fully understand each other's personality.
seven, in order to rebel before choosing this object
parents always told you stressed the need to find a rich object, but why each of your boyfriend is a pauper; young parents strict discipline you, but why every girlfriend you were free; young father remainding , mass incense is the most important thing, but why can not your girlfriend is not life, just do not want students ... ...
If you selected the object, always make parents angry, you probably just want to treason,
la gear originals, what do you think will come back to prove, when you can not control their own choice, you do not really love each other, this relationship doomed to no avail.
eight, the other party is not a free body
this point I leave to the last, because it can not be emotional. The first choice partner for life provided that - the other is If you love the man promised to break up earlier, and another woman; or he says he does not love that woman, and he loves you; or to accept his original object of your existence, they do not intend to break up, but he want to be with you for a while; or he just broke up, but may be reunited ... ... These are not free themselves.
other and married or those who object interaction, no matter what the excuse, the results are the same, you are doomed to heartbreak. Do not forget, you are simply another person with leftover parts.
choice in your hands, the responsibility on you, you have to choose the right person. If you have contacts the object,
la gear, and you are one of the above mentioned eight kinds of feelings, to get counseling, do not waste time, there are better objects waiting for you.
nine, after reading the post do not reply
general, read this post without leaving any emotional response people are the losers.