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parents and boyfriend to choose between on the question of who may have met a lot of girls are also very difficult for this,
mbt shoes uk, choose parents reluctant boyfriend, select the boyfriend and the parents feel hurt, no filial piety, but I found that more parents the final choice! And my personal view is that this choice is wrong for the following reasons:
1, relatively speaking, parents can accompany our time is short, even if you follow their arrangements boyfriend married another, or to leave them a few days? And they will get older, slowly leaving us completely, and her husband can accompany you to the really really old, so this person must be selected.
2, in fact, we all know that parents are good for us, but the generals would not necessarily does not mean parents will not 好心办坏事 child, your boyfriend, OK? Inappropriate for you and him together? Only you know, because you and he had a lifetime, not your parents, and he had a lifetime, so the parents optimistic about the useless, the question is whether you are optimistic, and there is a man of good, and only at his side Which woman knows it, in other words, only you know, your parents had with him was not any, how did they know that he no better then? This person is the person to accompany you through life, the parents said not, you have the final say, you must choose the right.
3, parents do not consent, usually for three reasons, (1) too far away, afraid to marry so far been wronged daughter, back home is not convenient. In fact, you think, as of now to where the traffic is not convenient? Further away, is abroad, that is, two or three days away. Fear wronged, to in fact far you married, do not necessarily wronged, and you nearly married, and not necessarily popular, some married to the same village, not a fight every few days, will not be affected by grievance, the key is to look at how this man like? So, you have to choose the right man. (2) is poor at home,
mbt shoes clearance, in fact, I think the money is not necessarily happy, but money is not necessarily unhappy, to the health center, chic little confused point, forget money, forget the fame and fortune, there is a associated with a nest, a little money has friends, a simple love, true pain, warmth, a lot of peace and happiness than this, say, the key is not to see his family has no money, but see he has the ability and desire to make money, home again money, if he does not live up to expectations, sooner or later is also a complete ruin, if he has the ability, then there is the desire to make money, now the poor will be temporary, this point parents should be to look farther ahead, rather than just the present, should stick to at least one person killed, so rich and not the house, but the Man, so you have to choose the right man. (3) is a bad reputation or who have questions about the issue if it is family reputation bad reputation, due to their parents, I think that sin should not be blamed with the children, it is very unfair to him because he is not wrong Who can say that the murderer must be a bad son? Certainly is a murderer? If his bad reputation, it is not to turn over to see him now, after all, who has time to do something wrong, not because of one thing to remember family life, there is a national sentencing date was not, so if people know wrong, turn over, and it should give people a chance of rehabilitation. If he really was not very good Chihepiaodu, the sly, then I fully agree with the views of parents, such men can not marry, that person must be selected.
fact, angry parents are temporary,
mbt sport shoes, and after that they will forgive you, but not a boyfriend is not, perhaps you will find a better, but you can find less than an identical, if you just to filial piety from their parents angry, but losing your boyfriend, I think this is very cruel to him, and unfair, the same, I think the wife will not Ye Hao, Because you did not position in her mind too, and lose your smile just for parents, this is how ridiculous things. Of course, you can say she is filial piety, but I think it is Yuxiao, is a big tragedy!
I remember a university, a professor did an experiment, so a girl on the blackboard, his own view, the most important person in accordance with the order of them, including parents, siblings, friends and colleagues neighbors. So after that the most important in their own persons the discretion of a deletion, in the end, only children, parents, her husband she was embarrassed this place, in the end she was crying and deleted the names of their parents, then children name, so the professor asked her: parents gave you life, and brought you up and adults back to your selfless love, the child is your biological child, is the meat of your body fall, but only what her husband No, not related to you both, no Daendade, but why Why did you leave him? So the girl said: sooner or later, away from her parents,
mbt walking shoes, only a few years ago to do a few years later, the children grow up, have your own family, will be leaving themselves, and stay true to the old accompany their side in their own lifetime, only the husband. Thus, the person you have to choose the right.
They say, marriage is a woman's second reincarnation, for the first time you do not have a choice, but the second you have, as to how to pick, it depends on your own, and Who can not help you,
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