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22127006 2007 年 04 月 16 日 11:35 Reading (loading. ..) Comments (3) Category: heart graffiti
people hard work and attitude, to a large extent determined by his attitude to life.
1. you more than you think
who have inferiority complex and met ahead of my You are actually smarter than you think, stronger, more talented, more creative. In you, is the seat untapped bonanza. But you knew, did not discover its potential.
self imagination of human behavior often have great influence, it gives you the boundaries delineated in the activities. Since that mediocrity, must not seeking a higher. The results would have been able to achieve, self-imagined as weak, self-discipline, self blame, do not start climbing yet to start, put the chances of success is lost in vain.
2. Do not show self-restraint
investigation materials, successful until that time, most confident in Time. This belief gave them a powerful force, so that they persevered until the goal is not reached, and finally boarded the pinnacle of success. If they just start to doubt, hesitation, hesitant, watch, then they can not make every effort to overcome all difficulties, and finally achieved his life.
3. to complete the last
past life on the road is inevitable that some setbacks, if put them away and are back on the body, would be non-heavy you can not crush. In life, you may never forget: my lack of initiative, I am indecisive, so good with words, my mind not working, I can not work independently, my result is not good, I can not keep people ......。 They may have been true, but at best only part of the truth, the correct approach is to regard them as a thing of the past, the past is past, what matters is the present and future. Not so much
4. Do not swayed by public opinion, like the comments of the first products
a lot of people enough, you may face ridicule and derision at any time, do not make it so you, the dry to dry, and strive to have done best. People say you can not, does not mean you can not. Ability to develop, habits can be changed, the quality can be improved, success can be created. Remember the words of Emerson: Will definitely be taller than your past stronger.
5. overcome the ideological mood
a. cowardly regret
killing their own future feelings is perhaps the most harmful and repent. It can not change the past,
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b. worried
the other side of fear is regret. Worried regret the past, fear of anxiety is the future, and both give up now. As useless worry and regret. It can not change what will happen. This really makes me upset! Really makes me worry worry! I did not do it anymore! Do not take positive and effective attitude and action to create the future, a trial of strength worry about unexpected situation that may arise, this is nothing but a waste of time. Disperse the dark clouds of this mind there are ways: Looking back over the things you have worried about, how many finally happened? Not many! How many can be prevented by fear? Not one! That being the case, is a blessing not a curse,
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sit down and think about tomorrow, tomorrow, how many things to worry about it: tomorrow you may die, may be paralyzed, you could lose love, you may run into a fire you immediately stolen ......, will find that a bad thing really is endless line up, you have so much time to worry all that? Even if you have so much time, you worry about what can change it? Since the role of little concern, then you worry so much and why?
When you worry about when something will happen, might as well ask yourself:
c. lack of fear of failure
the courage to act, the world all the good things will happen, do not start to write, no articles, novels, songs, drama; afraid of sarcasm, not a singer, musicians, politicians, artists; afraid of new theory, there will be no inventions, medical ill never be ill; afraid people refuse, they will open a beautiful friendship flowers. In short, the fear of drop points do not participate in the competition, fear of shame would not work. So you will not be a loser, but you never will be the winner. This is the fear of failure to pay the price.
order to overcome this psychological fear to lose, I suggest you:
Do not look to every top-notch, key items smug, slightly worse on the golf course,
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set up their own success criteria, and not to other people about my father and his wife want you to become president of the company, you do not value it, you can be successful in other areas.
if you fail,
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to face their own fear of failure in, find a stir and they might try something, even if do not have to regret not got his wish.
successfully carried out only in the end things are determined people. To be successful, they could not comfortably, no patience, suffer a little longer to call, it will never succeed.
good at overcoming the shortcomings of the vulnerability of the weak rather than strong, a flawed diamond than the defect-free bricks more valuable. Everyone has weak and cowardly when strong reason why the strong,
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