Confucius said: Gentlemen Lane in speech but quick in action. What does that mean? I understand what this means is that Confucius Shaoyueduozuo. In my impression, as if our culture has always been a person not in favor of the silver tongue, we say that a person, Like a man who is able to say, it must be
I was young, lively and love say love to laugh, this often suffer from the teacher's criticism. One of my public high school teacher in class However, no matter whether the cat catch a mouse, I'm not a cat, but also for catch mice and not interested, why do I have to catch a mouse with a good ability to tight-lipped about the ability to learn what the cat? But Zhongkoushuojin Renyankewei, I was under the help of the teacher education had become a man of few words, not because Paper people called.
But if I hardly managed to cut a double fold, single fold the results of a sudden pop, like when I was finally able to and if this ability is tantamount to a certain extent the superb mastery of a profound learning. A friend of mine actually talking to people by teaching a small profit. The fact that he taught the principle of Not that under Cai Die Man, picking up people want to hear say would be finished? Later learned that is not so easy, See what people say and what is most difficult to accurately determine where the other side who are, or what not to become a pot is not touching the tender spot?
Closer to home, my friend does best is to give people to do
a word prosperous country, state waste a word. In fact, talking is a skill, and occasionally will come in a handy, such as But when we were little, like teachers and parents are particularly afraid of us, Today, I will meet some special people who can speak with me humble, Of course, I carefully thought about and felt the words of Confucius are not wrong, they said that the Gentleman is not ordinary people, the ancient gentleman is generally excellent learning, Shi, and embark on career course Shaoshuoduozuo, that Confucius advocated as the leading cadres should do more practical work and should not be calling the shots all day long.
I think my teacher is regarded as our leading cadres of all the students to develop or he should not ask us to He does not think he did so request, how many people ruined the future, or how the students in my Internet companies did not do it? First, because the network would have all day to persuade the company, or who gave you venture? Of course, after so many years, I too hold a grudge is not good, or their good for nothing, blame the people,
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