6旬老太33年寻亲路 最大心愿是见父亲一面

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　　这30多年来，我到处托人寻找父亲的下落，只要一听说谁家有香港、台湾的亲戚朋友，就会把父亲的照片、 信件送去让别人帮忙留意寻找，但每一次都是石沉大海。
　　记者看到，杨老太太把父亲寄来的卡片、照片、信纸还有信封统统装在透明的文件袋里，保管得相当仔细,c hanel sito ufficiale (http://www.borsechanelprezzi.net)。
　　在采访最后，杨老太太的表姐陈仁菊对记者说，由于时隔久远，杨父是否仍然在世，她们也没有太大的把握。 如果实在找不到，也希望能够找到杨宝山的其他亲人或者知情人士，向他们了解杨宝山的点点滴滴，了结杨宇琦老 人的心愿。
　　后来父亲得知母亲改嫁，便很少跟她通信了，大概多少怀有伤心和不满吧。于是，开始频繁地给 我写信。


　　母亲却已改嫁

　　“其实改嫁并非母亲的意愿，只是当时的条件太苦了，一个女人带着孩子也难啊！”杨老太太告诉记者，在改 嫁之前，母亲曾对外婆和继父发过誓，只要父亲哪天回来找她，她一定二话不说带上我跟着父亲去。



　　□见习记者 陈嫣然 高远
　　难舍父女情


　　“当时的华侨中学有三分之一的学生都是华侨子女，当初母亲让我考入这所学校读书也是想让我能够早点融入 华侨的生活吧。”说着说着，杨老太太不禁红了眼眶，她告诉记者，父亲的良苦用心实在令她无以为报，“他曾经 在信中说过，因为母亲的改嫁让我有了一个继父,sito ufficiale gucci (http://www.borsegucciitalia.net)，所以他坚持不结婚，免得以后我去香港又多一个继母。 ”




　　这么多年，母亲一直生活在懊悔里，懊悔当初没有让我与父亲团聚，使得父女俩到现在都未曾见上一面。两年 前，母亲因病去世，在弥留之际仍然嘱咐我，一定要找到父亲，一定要见上一面。


　　“我的名字也是父亲给取的，大家都说这个名字好听又有气质。”突然间，60多岁的老人竟像孩子般地哭了 起来，这份跨越了半个多世纪的父女情令记者也深深动容。

　　时光倒流半个世纪
　　记得有一次，很幸运地找到了一个上海老人，他也曾在“东亚巨人”轮船上工作过，那时候已经离职回到了内 地。他帮我写信到轮船公司询问，结果还是没有音讯。


　　安定好工作后，父亲回到家，想让母亲随着他一块去香港，因为估计一时之间不能回国，而轮船多数会在香港 停靠，与家人团聚也更容易些。


　　1948年，父亲与几位朋友一起前往香港金山轮船公司工作，在一艘名为“东亚巨人”的轮船 上做水手。

　　与父亲开始通信的时候，我正在陶公山曹家小学念六年级。父亲十分关心我的学业，每次来信都会督促我用功 学习，同时，父亲还很希望我能够去香港，早日与他团聚,borse gucci outlet (http://www.borsegucciitalia.net)，但母亲认为我年纪还小，不放心把我送去香港，于是就 跟父亲约定，等我成年之后再出去。

　　1967年6月,louis vuitton sito ufficiale (http://www.borselouisvuittonit.com)，父亲来信告诉我和母亲，他很快就要随船去英国 ，再次要我去香港与他团聚，信里写道“只要能见一面我死都甘心”。至此之后，父亲就再也没有任 何消息了。

　　何时才能了结
　　父亲出远门谋生

　　尽管岁月荏苒，杨老太太对父亲的思念之情丝毫没有减退，反而愈加浓烈，“多想在有生之年里能够见上我的 父亲一面，想知道这么多年来他到底在哪里，过得好不好，哪怕人不在了，见一见骨灰也好啊。”

　　三年间“鸿雁传书”

　　老太太名叫杨宇琦，只见她从包里拿出一本厚厚的文件夹，慢慢翻开，也慢慢翻开了一段跨越半个世纪之久的 辛酸往事。
　　1949年，母亲生下了我。直到我7岁左右，父亲仍旧没有任何消息。

　　30多年的寻亲希望
　　15年后父亲来信
　　尽管母亲坚持等待，但是外婆却非常心疼，始终认为母亲一人抚养我太过艰难，劝她尽早改嫁。由于当年生活 的确相当困苦，母亲只好松口答应了。

　　“这些可都是我的宝贝啊。”说起与父亲通信的往事,chanel borse (http://www.borsechanelprezzi.net)，杨老太太显得颇为激动。

　　经人介绍，母亲与宁波鄞州一个当地人结婚，我也随之在宁波居住下来。
　　1964年，外婆托人带信给母亲，说是父亲给上海的家里寄来了一封信。因为受到政治环境限制，当时的香 港与内地一直无法通信，父亲寄出的信全都石沉大海,borse gucci prezzi (http://www.borsegucciitalia.net)，更不用说回上海找母亲了。



　　我的父亲叫杨宝山，生于1928年，是山东人。他与我母亲结婚后，一直居住在上海。
　　在1964年到1967年这几年里，父亲不定期地给我寄钱，前后大概有10余次，都是美元，也正是有了 父亲的资助，我才考上了华侨中学,gucci borse (http://www.borsegucciitalia.net)。
　　金报热线66111111报道 “如果父亲现在还活着的话，应该有82岁了。”前日，一名61岁的老太太在其表姐陈仁菊女士的陪同之下，来 到本报求助称，能否帮忙寻找33年前她失去联系的亲生父亲。
　　当时，母亲已怀有身孕，怕一个人孤身在外没有人可以照应，再加上外婆的极力阻拦，便打消了跟随父亲离开 的念头。无奈之下，父亲只好再次离开上海，从此杳无音讯,borse chanel prezzi (http://www.borsechanelprezzi.net)。
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