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This is called manipulation.
So why lie?
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1. To get out of trouble.
2. To get something they want.
3. To make themselves or a situation look better than it really is.
Tips for spotting lies
1. Run the story you are hearing through the filter of the 3 reasons above. Does the story fit one or more of the 3 criteria.
2. Does the story match what you already know to be true?
And the number one way to tell if a teen is lying -
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